i dont understand why "its normal" for guys to solve problems by fighting it out. how is shouting " FUCK YOU", standing and staring at each other, grabbing each other's collar, and then fighting and struggling until even when a not-so-young teacher stood in the midst of the fight the fire in their eyes did not reduce, ( by two nice guys ) "normal". i hate myself because my stupid butt was just stuck to the ground and i didnt try to stop the "fight" happening before my very eyes. i hate myself more because even half-way through their "discussion" i saw something like that coming.as he clenched and unclenched his fist.YET i couldnt do anything. or could i? good god, let me forget this fight soon. let me forget that a very nice guy was involved in it. let every word exchanged not be imprinted into my mind like a broken recorder playing the same "track" over and over again like it is doing now. take away every one's harmful stress so this year's hard work would not go to waste. help everyone to control their emotions such that even at the point of outburst, violence is not an option.